Totally agree. This is a big part of why I self-ID as polyamorous
What I mean by poly/polyamory is this: What I mean is not against. I am not against monogamy. I am not for non-ness. I am not a non-monogamist. I am not for non-monogamy. To be honest, I cringe when other theorists use the term nonmonogamy. I don’t like it. I am not anti-monogamy. I may sometimes use phrases like “living outside of monogamy” or something such as that. I do that in order to help explain. To help begin the communication process. Because it’s hard to begin to talk about something that’s so out of the norm. So sometimes, yes, I do use the term “monogamy” within my definition of polyamory. It helps to give the hearer a place to start. They know what monogamy is. So I start with that. However, this does not mean that I am trying to set up a dichotomy or a war. There is no poly versus mono debate here’
let me know how that works out for you481 up, 169 downFebruary 15, 2012 Urban Word of the Daythe easiest way to end an argument when your opponent relays their intentions to do something that you do not agree with.(online or in text msg, etc)
“I have to go shopping”
‘I shop online, you must have tons of time on your hands. it’s Christmas and the stores are packed!’
“The traffic here is fine.”
‘I thought it was snowing there.’
“I have snow tires! duh.”
‘You know, there are websites that sell things much cheaper.’
“But there is a sale going on at my favorite place!”
‘fine. let me know how that works out for you.’
