Interview with a domme
” In BDSM, we might render someone completely vulnerable, binding them hand and foot and then beating them —and the outcome is an orgasm and aftercare. The outcome of being vulnerable in the real world is rarely that positive.”
” Many of the things that I now find most rewarding about my sex life are things that weren’t even part of my fantasy life at all five years ago. My partners discovered those things in me. So when someone asks me what my ideal partner or relationship is, the honest answer is, “I don’t know, but I think the people for whom I experience strong sexual attraction do.”
